Many people like the idea of their family and friends getting together to commemorate their life and have a good party, instead of attending a formal funeral service. Especially if they have lived long and happy lives.
This is known as a celebration of life, the joyful alternative to a sombre traditional funeral.
Usually, a celebration of life memorial is held as a separate event from the funeral itself. Or, it may replace the funeral altogether.
For example, many people choose to arrange a celebration of life following a direct cremation (as there’s no funeral service before the cremation).
This type of send-off allows family and friends to get-together in a casual setting, such as in someone’s garden or down the local pub, to talk openly about the life, personality and accomplishments of their loved one.
At a celebration of life ceremony you may have:
- Bright colours and clothing
- Music and dancing
- Food and drink
- Sharing of memories and photographs
- Light-hearted speeches
You may also choose to scatter the ashes or plant a memorial tree at this time, depending on the location of the event.
For a slightly more formal ceremony, a humanist celebrant or religious officiant could be appointed, depending on your preference.